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The Yes, No, Maybe Checklist 12 pages

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The Yes, No, Maybe Checklist

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Not your basic checkbox list. 12 pages of conversation starters, intimacy questions, and activity checklists that actually get you somewhere. Works for couples and solo. You will learn things about yourself.

What's inside

  • 11 conversation-starter questions
  • Giving vs. receiving activity checklist
  • Positions, sensations, and more sections
  • A feelings page that hits different
  • Print-ready, A4 and Letter size
Kinky Coupons 60 coupons

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Kinky Coupons

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60 coupons across 6 categories. 50 are prefilled and ready to go. 10 are blank so you can write your own. Print, cut, and hand them over. A better Valentine's gift than flowers and a more interesting Friday night than Netflix and chill.

What's inside

  • 50 prefilled coupons, 10 write-your-own
  • 6 activity sheets from sensual to explicit
  • Cover page and how-to guide included
  • Print-at-home, cut-and-use format
  • Works for any relationship structure
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Start with the checklist. Figure out what you both actually want. Then use the coupons to act on it. One is for talking. One is for doing. Together they're the whole thing.


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