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Digital downloads for people ready to have the conversations they've been putting off. Print them. Use them. Go somewhere real.
12 pages
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Not your basic checkbox list. 12 pages of conversation starters, intimacy questions, and activity checklists that actually get you somewhere. Works for couples and solo. You will learn things about yourself.
What's inside
60 coupons
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60 coupons across 6 categories. 50 are prefilled and ready to go. 10 are blank so you can write your own. Print, cut, and hand them over. A better Valentine's gift than flowers and a more interesting Friday night than Netflix and chill.
What's inside
The Bundle
Start with the checklist. Figure out what you both actually want. Then use the coupons to act on it. One is for talking. One is for doing. Together they're the whole thing.
Things I and people I know use. I've linked across platforms to make it easy. They're tough to keep fully updated so if you can't find something, just ask.
Most notes, most context
Curated lists with extra notes from me on each pick. This is where I put the most thought into what I'm recommending and why.
some people like one, some like the other. take your pick — and genuinely, thank you for the support.
Solo play.
Everything you've been too embarrassed to Google.
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App-controlled, partner-compatible, and the one I actually recommend every time someone asks. Worth it.
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